Just wondering if I'm weird or not here. In a long term relationship, do you need sex to be regular to keep you interested? As in, if you had large gaps between sex sometimes, does it bother you?
Say after a few weeks without, can you just get back into it at the drop of a hat? I'm struggling as if sex doesn't happen for a few weeks, I just loose interest. Mainly cuz I feel partner isn't interested, and then I back off as well. And I struggle to initiate, as if sex isn't regular, I just don't have the confidence to initiate.
Does anyone else feel like this? I know me not initiating is a problem, but I massively lack confidence in all areas of my life, and if sex isn't regular I just back off and loose Interest because I feel like partner isn't interested.
I feel way more interested in sex when it's regular (not talking every day or anything, but just like once or twice a week regular). When there are gaps of more then a few weeks I just don't want it anymore when partner then suddenly initiates it.
Am I weird for feeling like this? Am I supposed to just want sex even if we haven't had it for weeks? I'm talking long term relationship of many years here, and yes we've spoken about it, but I just don't think partner understands that I feel like this. Arrrgggg!