Broken up for real this time

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Hi all.
Posted here before about my ex who wasn't the best partner he would gaslight me make me feel like things where always my fault, he used sex cams, started messaging a woman he met at the gym he said it wasn't like that it was to help his mental health ( so he says)
we broke up then he came back weeks later begging for another chance this was over a year ago.
I broke up with him last week as I feel like we don't see each other ( change in circumstances) he's not messaged so I haven't him but he's now friends with this gym girl on Facebook and like I said this happened over a year ago so now I feel like he lied the whole time there was defo more too it than he's made out. So hurt by it but resisting the urge the message an have it out because I don't want to seem bothered about it and him know iv looked on Facebook 😢
Just venting men are arseholes x

Darling, men are not arseholes but THIS one is not good enough. Drop him, block for your own peace of mind, and shift your attention to your own life. You can do better, honestly. You've wasted a year here.

You chose badly, and then you chose badly by taking the snivelling fuckwit back. Just don’t make the same mistake again. The world is full of non-assholes.

We was a relationship on an off since 2022 finding it really hard to not message 😭 but he treats me so bad x

Right, dig deep, find your self respect and value yourself a whole lot more. Time together does not equal love worth. This one does NOT deserve you.

Delete his number and block him on everything. Take one day at a time, just get through each day without contacting him and it will improve.

And definitely don't stalk him on any social media, nothing you see is going to make you feel better

It's the fact he's ran back to her an moving on within a few days. Yes you're right thank you all I will get there very hard especially with Christmas coming x