I'm finding my best friend's partner somewhat rude. Her previous partner, who was socially adept and supportive of her career, was seemingly let go after she reached her goals. Now she's living with someone wealthy, fully enjoying their shared lifestyle, and often refers to everything as "hers” and “theirs” rather than “his” - if feels like she genuinely thinks she has earned his house despite having been with him for a number of months.
While I'm happy for her, her current partner treated me dismissively the first time we met, focusing only on money and making a joke at my expense. I felt awkward when he didn't engage with me, even neglecting to ask if I'd like a drink. He also started picking his teeth openly after we had dinner which I found a bit rude and didnt ask me any questions despite me taking an active interest.
It seems she's in this relationship for the lifestyle, which she admits isn't possible on her salary, but I feel uncomfortable with his poor engagement with her friends. Her previous partner and my partner both engage and host politely, valuing friendships sincerely. It saddens me to think she might be prioritising wealth over genuine connection with friends.