Every now and again my husband and I have a huge argument which gets heated and divorce is mentioned. We both say things that are not nice but it's so hard to come back from them. He is aggressive, swears at me and says absolutely awful things to me. He wants me to quit my job and be at home with our children which we can't afford for me to do. He wants me to change jobs to pick up the children from school. I'm sick or arguing about the same things. He says I choose my job over my family but I need to work to pay the bills. He works too and does school pick ups then works around the children as he works at home. I just don't know what to do. Do I change jobs despite just taking a promotion? Do I just try to put the family first more enen though I think I already do? Do I leave? Help