Reconciliation after separation

[Kea6]

reconciliation after separation
Ive been separated three months after a awful year his choice and he got himself a new place
he now decided he does love me but isn’t sure if we can be together
does getting back together ever really work?
he’s done so many things but he’s still my life
sadly yes he’s had his cake and eat it while apart comes here every day sleep together regularly but then he goes quiet for couple days as he said it confuses things
he genuinely doesn’t seem to know what he wants and I am still just heartbroken
i know that he’s probably going to ask me to come back but does that ever actually work

I don’t know if it never works, but are his actions currently those of a man who is dedicated to reconciliation? Are you considering taking him back just to make the pain of heartbreak stop, or because you truly see a healthy long term relationship with him?

Sounds like he is using you, keeping you in limbo but not really considering your feelings.

You're waiting for him to make up his mind. Sleeping together then going through the rollercoaster waiting and uncertainty.

That's cruel.

I'm afraid doing the pick me dance doesn't usually end well. What he's doing is incredibly cruel. He's messing with you, keeping you on the back burner in case whatever (whoever) made him leave in the first place doesn't pan out.

Don't do it to yourself. Take back control. It may be painful, but it will pass. If he really did love you, he wouldn't treat you like this. Actions speak louder than words.