Been with dh for 17 years, we have 2 children. Over the years he’s had his fair share of talking to women (always my fault) we’ve got through it but we’re now in a rough patch again. We are trying to work though it but it’s hard. He does things to make me react and then plays the victim card and just turns really cold. He’s doing stuff on purpose I think to just make me feel like I’m going mental. Like little things. It’s basically me telling him the things not to do that make me feel crappy for me to then give him agg so to speak. I’ve told him not to do things that make me question him or makes my mind race. I’ve basically how to tell him how to treat me like be nicer to me, show me affection etc you get my drift. Now I’m kind of thinking if I’m telling him how to treat me he really doesn’t love me at all and I really have no self respect 😞 i love him I wish he loved me as much as I loved him but if he did he’d know how to treat me. Thank you if you’ve made it this far.