im a mother to a 6 year old (from a previous relationship) and a 4 month old (partner in questions).
My partner wasn’t born in the uk and we met online. He had told me he had been in the uk for a number of years before we met and we have currently been together for 2 years.
The relationship began to turn south 1/4 into the pregnancy. He couldnt handle my sensitivity, it all started to turn sour. We pushed through, and after my son was born things did not improve. During a heated argument, when my baby was 2 months old, my partner I asked him to leave. He insisted he would take the baby with him. After repeatedly asking him to leave, I threatened to call the police in which he told me to go ahead, so I did.
Fast forward 2 months, the reprocussions of me phoning the police he told me he had to sign with immigration regularly, because he was arrested (no charges). Almost every argument since he has used this reasoning to insult me to the moon and back, treat me heartlessly no matter what I do or don’t do.
I found some paper work today, paper work todo with the immigration involvement. It states he had a 6 month visitor pass issued just 6 months before we met. The month we began dating it expired and he has never renewed it etc since, and that’s the reasoning for him having to sign.
He has lied to me from the very beginning. And now, he is still lying and using my guilt to treat me quite terribly when it suits him.
What on earth do I do?