Hi all,
a bit of perspective please.
ive been with this guy for about a year, communication has always been good, loads of texting during the day, almost daily phone called etc
He'd always keep me updated on his whereabouts.
But then the other night something happened. He messaged me that he was at home tidying etc, even messaged an hour later to say he was going to bed as he was expecting a busy day the next day. Then I found out he was actually out in a bar with friends.
When I asked him about he intially lied, then said he went out after he sent me the “going to bed” message and when I said I don’t believe any of it, finally admitted that we was in fact out but pretending to be at home.
His explanation : he didn’t want me to think he goes out that much and that he should have been spending the evening with me and not out.
None of it makes any sense as I don’t actually mind him going out and also we had no plans to see each other that evening. I’m just baffled as to why he acted this way. But what’s more it’s now making me question everything else, how many times has he done that before and I had no idea. There is no point continuing this, is it?