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Ex living with me just a rant 🖤

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LuckyHiker · 02/12/2024 00:02

I broke up with my ex too be honest after a thread that I made on here before. He’s been living with me and had said if I could give him 2 weeks to find somewhere so I said yes fine. It’s been over 2 weeks I think now and still nothing, it’s been very quiet , awkward , very depressing for me and really affecting my mental health and day to day life. He is all saying too me oh I’m going out with my work mates around 20th so just letting you know , I’m all confused because I thought he had told me to give him 2 weeks. Yesterday he had asked me for sx so I had said like no your confusing me why you asking that so he said for pleasure and to be closer to you so I said like I broke up with you no I don’t really want sx.
So he then says “so you don’t ever want me be intimate with me again then? So you don’t want to be with me ?” It’s like I’ve already I told you again why do I have too repeat myself again and he goes all quietly down and annoyed like this is new news to him , Why do this ? I don’t understand ? Is this him trying to make me feel bad or what ? And especially with Christmas coming up me telling him to just get the f out is making me feel guilty and we have 2 kids .

I honestly don’t know what too do I just felt like I needed too come on here for a little rant tbh 🖤

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LuckyHiker · 02/12/2024 02:00

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Fraaahnces · 02/12/2024 02:02

Pack his shit up, put it outside the house and change the locks. He’s had two weeks. He expects you to do everything for him.

WearyAuldWumman · 02/12/2024 02:03

Sounds as though he's hoping that you'll change your mind about kicking him out.

LuckyHiker · 02/12/2024 10:55

WearyAuldWumman · 02/12/2024 02:03

Sounds as though he's hoping that you'll change your mind about kicking him out.

I’ve been literally thinking the exact same thing right now lol

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Dillydollydingdong · 02/12/2024 10:59

Have you got the right to kick him out? Whose house is it? Maybe you should threaten to walk out yourself and leave him to sort out out the kids?

LuckyHiker · 02/12/2024 11:15

Dillydollydingdong · 02/12/2024 10:59

Have you got the right to kick him out? Whose house is it? Maybe you should threaten to walk out yourself and leave him to sort out out the kids?

Yes, he isn’t actually on the tenancy only I am and the kids. I could say that but one of them isn’t biologically his he’s just been around her since baby

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TheShellBeach · 02/12/2024 11:16

Sx?

DPotter · 02/12/2024 12:06

LuckyHiker · 02/12/2024 11:15

Yes, he isn’t actually on the tenancy only I am and the kids. I could say that but one of them isn’t biologically his he’s just been around her since baby

In that case - No he leaves today, he's had his 2 weeks

If he refuses pack up his stuff when he's out and leave it on the front step. Then get the locks changed. You can change just the barrel which is a lot cheaper.

TheShellBeach · 02/12/2024 12:27

Another poster on here had a very similar situation.
She ended up calling the police to remove him, because he just wouldn't go.

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