i have decided to LTB, we have 2 DC 11 and 13. I had hoped that I could hang on either forever or at least until the DC have flown nest. But, know my dislike of him is making me crabby around the kids. I also told myself that while kids are happy and not effected, I will keep trying.
but now I don’t think I can. I began noting what is pissing me off. Mainly doing all what he wants most of the time and only chipping in if I ask. Including mental load, housework, homework, kids health and education. I am sure there is no going back. No sex because the aforementioned gives me the ick.
so, plan is to get a new job (current one wouldn’t cover Bills) , and then arrange a rental for 6 months while we sort the money out. I do t want this house, I know he will share kid access as it would be way to much effort for him to have them more than his share.
How do I stay sane and not make kids life horrid while I get there and gather paperwork’s and evidence (realistically 3 months). I switch from feeling positive and able to wait it out to feeling moments away from telling him it’s over. Worried I will lose the plot in the meanwhile and seeking strength tips.