So me and my partner have been together almost 11 years, lived together for 8 of those and have a 3.5yr child.
I have been feeling unhappy in the realonship for a while and always comes back to the same thing EVERYTIME he doesn't help around the house and barely wants to even spend time with his own child sometimes...
I feel like I have 2 children most the time not 1 and I love being a mum to my child but I have started to resent him... like when l ask him to do something it ALWAYS comes back to he's working or his eczema flaring up (get that a lot now it's cold)
I have started a new job 2 months ago so I feel like I am drowning, doing everything alone and just feel like I go round in circles and it's always the same he says he will, do 1 maybe 2 things or if really lucky a while list bit then week or 2 later back to nothing. He says I need to nag and I just don't have the energy for it... Like he's a grown man and our 3.5 Yr old does more round the house than he does at this point...
I am at breaking point... I know should try to resolve and talk about it but as per usual in my live it's 'bad timing' with Christmas time coming he will have to work a half day 2moz (a Saturday) so will have ' an excuse' not to be doing anything and I'm the bad guy for asking him to do the bare minimum to help around a house WE share
I feel that we are just good friends and do get on, mainly coz I just want him to have a good time with our child and suck/bottle ALOT up and now I'm going to expode....