Me and my partners have been together for four years, I have been married previously over thirteen years ago left my ex 6 years ago. Me and my partner have discussed marriage but he’s never said he wants to/doesn’t want to but often he says why because you’ve been married before? Last night we watched eastenders and the wedding episode, I said what would you want our first dance song to be he didn’t reply? He never really goes into detail much, so I said I don’t want to get married to be honest, he went all quiet last night and this morning said I’ve never said no to marriage but you’ve said no so now it’s dead in the water??