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I finally blocked him after a year of utter rubbish

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Blocked86 · 27/11/2024 16:21

I have finally blocked the guy I've been texting after a year of utter time wasting. He never wanted to date me , he never took me seriously as a potential girlfriend and this was so obvious from his actions, last minute texts to meet up, never arranging a date , but still wanting access to me when bored and to come over for sex.
It feels so good to block him and deny access , I'm so tired of it. I should have done it months ago but I wasn't quite ready. I've no intention of unblocking him either so he will stay blocked forever. I've also coincidentally moved so he doesn't know where I live anymore.
Not really asking anything just wanted to share and celebrate! I would love to see the look on his face when the grey tick doesn't turn blue and it dawn's in him he's blocked, if only I was there! That's presuming he even cares which he probably doesn't but I don't think he ever thought I would block him. I just got to the point of no return where I was totally done with it.

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DemonicCaveMaggot · 27/11/2024 16:25

Good for you, and I join you in your celebration. Rather than think of a year wasted, think of all those years you haven't wasted by blocking him now.

Blocked86 · 27/11/2024 16:27

@opalfind it is the first time I have blocked him, I never did it before

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NotThisShitAgain121 · 20/05/2025 12:32

So glad you have seen him for the shitbag that he is. You deserve so much better than this wanker. Good on you!

EveryOtherNameTaken · 20/05/2025 12:52

Good for you! He'll be wondering why because he's got used to getting away with it for a year - dickhead.

Onwards and upwards.

Blocked86 · 21/05/2025 16:38

Update! He actually got in touch in March of this year on SMS text. I hadn't blocked him there as didn't think he would bother getting in touch there. He acted as though I hadn't blocked him. He asked how I was and I basically wrote back , who is this, I don't have this number on my phone.
😂😂
He asked to meet for a coffee but I started seeing someone in January of this year so I told him I couldn't as I had a boyfriend. Justice is sweet!

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Disturbia81 · 21/05/2025 18:17

Blocked86 · 21/05/2025 16:38

Update! He actually got in touch in March of this year on SMS text. I hadn't blocked him there as didn't think he would bother getting in touch there. He acted as though I hadn't blocked him. He asked how I was and I basically wrote back , who is this, I don't have this number on my phone.
😂😂
He asked to meet for a coffee but I started seeing someone in January of this year so I told him I couldn't as I had a boyfriend. Justice is sweet!

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And just proves how little he gave a shit as he left it so long.
Hope you are happy now! 🩷

Stripeyanddotty · 21/05/2025 18:19

How do you block someone on SMS text?
I thought once you blocked a number that blocked text messages too?

mathanxiety · 21/05/2025 18:49

Glad you've moved on.

I would have texted back simply that you had no interest in meeting up and he should consider himself dumped.

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