I need advice please!!

[Mykidslovebluey]

I’ve been with my partner 11 years, not married, 2 kids.
I say partner loosely! I feel he’s more a roommate of late. Anyone else feel like this? I’ve felt like this specifically the last couple of years, but recently so strongly…
AIBU for wanting a ‘boyfriend’?
11 years and no flowers, head in phone when I get home, no “How was your day?” Just no interest at all. What’s wrong?

We’re not even married, and I’m already feeling this way! He wants the bit all the time, but I just have no desire at all…

I can relate, been with my partner for 13 years, we also have two children age 11 and 8. Partner works away Monday to Friday and seems to be so miserable when he's at home, also seems to always be on his phone, I don't usually mind but I don't like it when he does it when we are in bed, I do feel like we are losing our connection but I'm glad we very rarely argue.

Doesn’t it feel awful! We’re not away from each other as much as you guys, but I agree, he’s miserable when he comes home and I’m miserable to go home… Is it a conversation? Or more needed you think?