I caught my partner multiple times watching a movie on the tv whilst we were making out.
I know we were only kissing at this stage but we hadn’t seen each other for nearly a week as I had been really poorly which makes it worse. At the fourth point I had to just point it out and refused to continue on to sex.
On another issue I never wanted to go to the office Christmas do as it is extremely expensive (costing £150.00 each) to the point I expressed I’d rather go away on a weekend together but he persevered for the do.
I asked him this week why he persevered with wanting me to go and he said he thought it was a good idea for me to break the ice with my colleagues and so I have a chance to prove how nice I am!!! There is no issue where I work there are just two women that I am not particularly close to because we have different interests so I found the whole thing a random thing to say. To give you some context I have worked where I have for nearly a decade and my partner is part of the maintenance team for our work place I work at for the past year or so. Having my partner come up with something like this has unsettled me? Why would I have to prove myself to anyone? Why do I have to prove I’m nice? Where has that come from?
On a third issue we watched a movie a few weeks back which had an erotic scene in. He said if it turns him on he will take it out on me 🙄 hmm at this point after the scene he tried it on with me…. I just thought no thanks I’d rather if we had sex it would be because you’re turned on by me….
Lastly, for Xmas he tells me he has bought me a scarf and a hat 🙄 I find that odd as he asked me a while back if I have scarfs and hats and I said yes scarfs but I don’t wear hats. He says I will look very much ‘taken’ and ‘in a relationship’ when wearing it…..
anyway when I have confronted these things and said there all a bit weird things to say I’m told I’m being sensitive….
Am I being sensitive?