Dependant on repulsive bully

[Lori4]

Hi,
I left domestic abuse recently and am now dependant on a repulsive bully type.
Need to reach out.
Don't want to discuss.
Need distraction
Lori4

I'm soo Isolated.

Have you contacted women's aid?

https://www.womensaid.org.uk/

Yes.

Are you not able to get away from this person?

Are you working? Can you put aside money so you can afford to move?

No.
Yes, I'm hoping to move. I want to move without telling him.
Thanks for your reply by the way.

I don't think I should post any more on here.
Although I don't know where to post it.

Get it moved to relationships,

Just keep your chin up, keep saving, stay strong and focus on your goal of getting away.

If you report your own post you can ask Mumsnet to move this thread to Relationships.

Are you in immediate danger?

No! I'm safe. Thank you.

Please contact them.

Good. Sending you strength and love. You're worth so much more than this situation you're in right now. Always remember that. I wish you all the best.

Women's aid are fantastic, do contact them.

Sounds like a distraction and some support would be helpful too? Is there any groups near you that you think you might like? My yoga and running groups have been my saviours in my tough times 😊

Sending hugs, this sounds like a rough patch for you and I hope things get better

Just bide your time @Lori4 my FIL was an abusive twunt and it took MIL years to leave. You can set yourself up again. Those fuckers are psychological poison so you can’t see your path yet but it will come. Women’s aid might be a good start.

Thank you. Yes. Thanks for the hugs! Its really nice to have made contact with people. Thank you everyone!

Sorry, I hope everyone else is ok. I've asked to have the thread moved to relationships.

Who is the bully to you - parent, sibling, new relationship?

We've moved this thread over for you now, OP.

OP I'm sending hugs too.
Like the others have said, bide your time and save your money on the quiet if you can.

A lady I work with left her emotionally and financially abusive DH last year and she'd managed to secure herself a
One bedroom Flat on the quiet. She has a beautiful little dog and a cozy home and
She has freedom.

You WILL do it. X