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who else HATES your ex-DH new GF?

15 replies

chikenmother · 28/04/2008 21:43

I do I do I do

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mistressmiggins · 28/04/2008 21:57

me - she is OW and she is still (2.5 yrs on) verbally abusive to me on the phone
she's the one who "won" but obviously finds me a threat!
she also tells me 3 yr old DD off for not speaking to daddy on the phone - FFS he phones & sometimes she doesnt want to speak - so what! She is 3 and is tired after nursery and doesnt want to make chit chat

RaspberrySheep · 28/04/2008 22:35

Sounds to me like she's feeling guilty about separating your DD from her Daddy mistressmiggins, that's if she has a conscience and of course she's going to vile towards you - she may have 'won' but she will never be able to take away the 'history' that you and your ExP had together before she waded in with her size 12 flipper feet. She's just jealous, take the moral high ground and make her feel even worse!!

MascaraOHara · 28/04/2008 22:43

I hate my ex's girlfriend.. and I have absolutely no reason to lol. Would never admit it in RL though

charliecat · 28/04/2008 22:45

I dont, shes just another woman looking for happiness. And if she finds it in my x then well done to her.
I personally think his lying cheating ways will fuck it up....but she doesnt know that....and me telling her would just look like sour grapes...so I say nothing. But I know

PurpleOne · 28/04/2008 22:52

I hate my exh's wife.

She is a total vindictive bitch. Telling my dc's that mummy is ugly, and leaving shitty voicemails on my dd1's phone.
And assaulted dd1 in her own home last year.

Is part of an alternative religion that my family isn't part of...yet she will force the dc's heads down and / or kick them under the table if they don't pray.

Her and exh are most welcome to each other.

littlewoman · 28/04/2008 22:55

I do, she's the OW that xh left me with 6 children for... I would just like to see her try my motherhood role 6 months, and then see how up-her-own-arse she is after that. And she walks like a chav.

littlewoman · 28/04/2008 22:57

Purpleone, jeezy chreezy, she sounds like a child abuser.

moondog · 28/04/2008 22:58

Miggins,is it that long alredy??
How are you getting on?
How is your boyfriend?

alipiggie · 28/04/2008 22:59

Well he's not Ex yet. However it is very surreal when the OW asks me how I'm doing????? And hugs my boys. Sigh. Does it ever get any better.

harpsichordcarrier · 28/04/2008 22:59

blimey mmiggins 2.5 years does it seem like that to you?
I remember reading your original thread and admiring your courage

chikenmother · 28/04/2008 23:04

Thank you all. It helps to be understood...Makes me feel a normal person! OW should all be dead, specially when there are kids who have to talk with them.

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littlewoman · 28/04/2008 23:22

It'll be a cold day in hell before I see or speak to that woman. Some things I am not prepared to forgive. OW will all be dead one day, and a hole new generation of bitches to take their place unfortunately. Makes you wonder if you shouldn't just raise your kids to screw the world over, before they do it unto them, IYKWIM.

mistressmiggins · 29/04/2008 11:34

Nov 2005 he left so it has been 2.5 yrs.
Doesnt seem like it - seems like yesterday in some respects.
Almost divorced!!
Had it granted in Nov 2006 but havent completed as money wasnt sorted - finally sorted out the money on Friday so should be divorced in next 3 weeks.

OW is horrible to be me but I dont care as she seems a nasty piece of work & so hopefully is making exH's life hell
AND OW will never be truely accepted or welcomed into the family. I cant believe my ex-in-laws like her but probably put up with her.

Boyfriend is on other hand lovely and my children adore him. I am very much loved & cared for

moondog · 29/04/2008 17:04

Brill MM.

brightwell · 29/04/2008 17:50

Don't think I hate the ow, she & ex are perfect for each other. Controlling, manipulative, egotistic. I hate the things she has done, always nasty to my dc, I keep telling ex that he needs to keep a muzzle on her. And to remind her that my/our dc have just as much right as her dc to be at their house. In the past she's hacked into dd's msn account, pretended to be dd & chatted to me. Thankfully nothing incriminatig was said. she's blocked me on dd's msn and locked dd out of it. She once dumped ex & my dc at the roadside following a row on the way back from holiday. She's a witch but like I said they're well matched.

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