I will keep this brief. But basically my exH left when my dc was little. It was a traumatic time but we muddled through and communicated on dc related matters. We had private arrangement re child support. Time moved on and dc is 18. Not in any way financially independent and will not be for a very long time (living with me). ExH said a while back that when DC turned 18 he would stop financial support as before but would give some money to DC and a lump sum to me. (ExH is very wealthy.) when the time came he said he had changed his mind.
i sent him some messages asking him to honour his earlier promise. Nothing nasty - just asking him to reconsider. He has completely blocked me and today has sent me a really threatening message saying that I was harassing him and he would go to court to get an order against me!!
I am pretty sure that is nonsense but I am just feeling really unsettled and quite sad as I tried so hard to keep things amicable for so many years. What makes it even worse is that dc is ND and I think will need some emotional and practical support and I thought that as parents we should communicate to do that.
how do I just try to put this out of my mind? I am a strong, capable woman, but this has left me feeling like someone has stomped all over me.