Wish I’d not heard..

[Rubydoo122]

I overheard my son telling my husband that a women that they work with told my son that she finds my hubs attractive and fancies him. I don’t know anything about this woman and it’s making me feel very insecure because I’m not sure how friendly they are or if they cross paths often. I don’t want to ask my hubs or son about her because I know it will trigger some uncomfortable conversations. I have always been insecure our relationship and do suffer with jealousy which has caused problems but not for a long time. I’m also going through the menopause and feeling crap about myself which isn’t helping!
This has really stirred up those awful emotions again and I’m not sure what to do or how to stop feeling like this. Help or advice appreciated x

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Thank you for such helpful comments. We’ve had a chat and there wasn’t any negativity or gaslighting which I was worried about. He’s as uncomfortable as I am about it and has reassured me that he will keep it professional and make it clear that he’s not interested. He was incredibly loving and understands how I feel. Thank you again Xx

I don't care who finds my hubby attractive, I know he only wants me!
I know he knows anyone else other than me is a down grade 🤣🤪

The woman could have been having banter with your son about his dad.

The son could have been having banter with his dad and teasing him.

People do make jokes at work.

A co worker told my son they fancied me and a different co worker told me they fancied my son. Creepy but just move on.