So, I have a friend (well if that's what you can call her) basically be weird with me for a while now. She got close to a school mum at the start of the year and is always with her, they see each other every morning and afternoon as they walk to the school together.
Since she's been friends with her I've been made to feel like the third wheel again.
There was an incident in July where I was completely mugged off and they left me without telling me they was and I was left in town on my own when we all went together and they told me they would come back as my friend needed food but they didn't they went home.
The last few weeks she's been weird with me, I've seen her once in three weeks, the last time I saw her she said to me as I was about to leave I wanted to have a few drinks this weekend but 'the other woman' couldn't she has plans so I said oh I'll come and have drinks with you if you want she said oh I've made plans now, she didn't even ask me and it made me feel shit because I felt like as the other woman couldn't she didn't want too.
Then last week I said why don't we take the babies too soft play Wednesday (this was Monday) she said I don't know if I can but I'll let you know, she never got back to me. Then yesterday she said have you got a baby sitter for the 7th? I said the 7th?? She went yeah me and the other woman have a Xmas meal with the Zumba group and we are going out out after, I told you this a few months ago ( she never told me!) she tells me two weeks knowing I have to have notice as I don't have anyone to have the kids and find it hard to find anyone, I said to her I prob won't get a sitter as I have the kids that weekend as they aren't at their dads she then said oh no hope you can come. I just feel like I'm being pushed out and it always happens with me I don't know what I do wrong or if I say something to upset people but this always happens. I'm soo pissed off I don't know whether to mention all this to her or just leave her to it, if honest I can't be bothered too keep chasing for a friendship that clearly isn't actually a friendship. Friends don't ditch you or make you feel like that do they? I think this friendship is done if honest as I can't be bothered with it anymore after the incident in July where she apologised and brought me flowers and chocolates to say sorry I thought we was ok but she is still making me feel like this.
It's soo hard making friends in your 30's am I being over the top? Overthinking? Or is she actually just being an asshole and I'm right in feeling this way?