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Anyone not like their husband during pregnancy?

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Danghormones · 20/11/2024 22:22

my husband and I 99% of the time have a wonderful relationship - respect each other, fancy each other, share the same values etc. We are human though and albeit rare, we do argue, nothing major thankfully.

however…I am 15 weeks pregnant and the poor man has done nothing wrong and I’m so angry with him. It feels like PMS on steroids!! I can briefly remember feeling a bit like this during the first pregnancy around this time but not to this extent. On the other hand when I was 30 weeks pregnancy with our first baby I was all over my husband like a rash!

i feel like everything he does is wrong even if he does the right thing I get pissed off. I’ve been so snappy with him tonight for no reason at all. He’s a very chilled man, very rarely in bad form or grumpy, he’s just generally content and nothing has changed except me being pregnant.

does/did else feel like this in pregnancy??

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Danghormones · 20/11/2024 23:00

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hereismydog · 20/11/2024 23:04

At first, yes! I was just feeling sick and tired all the time and looking for someone to ‘blame’ when the poor man hadn’t done anything wrong.

Happy to report it did pass, I’m now 36 weeks and have genuinely never loved him so much. I feel like an absolute lovesick teenager when I watch him putting baby stuff together and generally just getting ready to become a Dad because I can feel the love and excitement radiating from him 🥹 it does get better, I promise!

Shelllendyouhertoothbrush · 21/11/2024 00:12

Wait until you're awake feeding the baby and he's asleep beside you. If he snores like mine he'll be lucky to survive.

SeaToSki · 21/11/2024 00:21

I couldnt stand the smell of my poor DH for weeks. Poor guy tried changing his deodorant, showering twice a day..it was my pregnancy nose.

Danghormones · 21/11/2024 07:38

Shelllendyouhertoothbrush · 21/11/2024 00:12

Wait until you're awake feeding the baby and he's asleep beside you. If he snores like mine he'll be lucky to survive.

To be fair with the first baby by that stage I was fine, he used to do the bottles whilst I changed the baby so we both ended up being awake

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