Arguments

[Penny45duke]

What was the last argument that you had with your husband that ended your marriage and what was the last straw that ended your marriage and how long where you married for

Threw a handbag at me and accused me of cheating

Penny your best bet is going to be to stick to the one original thread.

Why are you repeating your threads?? And don't say you aren't.

I’d been with him 11 years, married for 5.

We had an argument about him cancelling our NY plans because he couldn’t be bothered. He called me a c*t that had never helped him - I’d just spent 3 years nursing his dad through his final years. Actual incontinence pad changes, showering him, attending appointments etc. Unhelpful c*t though. I told him how upset that made me, and he said “it’s not about you.”

That was the first night I slept downstairs, and we never shared a bedroom again. We formally separated a few months later.

Do you mean you slept in the sitting room

I slept in the sitting room that night. After that I sorted the spare room, claimed it as my own and stayed there til the day I left.

Things hadn't been great for a while. I usually did all things DD related except for a couple of hours on a Monday evening.
A relative got sick, there were 5 months between her getting very sick and dying.
We stayed together for half of it. I did all the cooking too, except I had to visit said relative more. At the weekend I would take DD.
I realised when I kept getting home at 9/10pm in the week, usually only once perhaps twice, and DD was still awake and all of the batch cooking was eaten (that should have fed 3 of us) that he just didn't care. It didn't matter that I was exhausted and hungry. I still had to put DD to bed. (He'd shown me before, when I was passing out ill I still had to do bedtime. Should have listened then!)
The last argument we had was whether we should keep trying and run the risk of DD having to move out of a new school or I move out and get her settled elsewhere. I moved out.

Why did you leave and did you have children

Why are you asking?
Are you going to offer anything yourself to your thread? 🤔