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Need advice - what do I need to sort first?

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bamzooki · 28/04/2008 10:26

DH is leaving me, and basically I have no idea about what I need to do to sort out finances, council tax etc etc etc

I was sort of hoping someone who had been through this already could point me in the right direction. I was hoping not to have to deal with solicitors straight away, this is not a hugely hostile situation, especially compared to what poeple like CGM are going through right now.
But DH is doing an ostrich act on the practicalities, and I know I need to start the ball rolling.
So what do I do first?

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sixtus · 28/04/2008 10:30

CAB and a solicitor. Before things get unpleasant (as sadly they inevitably do....)

littlewoman · 28/04/2008 10:36

Firstly, you need to know what he is going to pay you or you won't be able to tell council tax / housing benefit, child tax credit exactly how much you have coming in.

Solictor and CAB, definitely. This is probably the last thing you feel like dealing with at such a horrible time. Wishing you the strength to get through it

bamzooki · 28/04/2008 10:55

Will the tax credit people etc be able to predict how much I would get if I can give them that info? I'm trying to get a handle on what I would need to be able to keep the house, or if it will have to be sold. Not a great time to be doing that.

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