Not necessarily costs I experience, but what about grooming/ clothes as well to look like we care? 😋 (A bit tongue in cheek obviously!)
Find that from date 2/3 it becomes a lot more expensive as people want to do activities/ travel/ go to shows etc. And then there’s weekends away, special treats for new partner, holidays…
May as well quit while ahead 😂 In all seriousness I do notice my budget taking a hit when I fancy someone as social life and looking nice is expensive