Husband constantly arguing everyday

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It getting to me and I have a headache. I just want him to stop but he doesn't. He behaved like a child. It's always the same about money. He's happy to splash the cash but I can't use a lot of it. He gets angry at top up shops etc. If I spend 100 pounds on 3 kids he gets mad...that's groceries, nappies, packed lunches etc I'm not sure what world he lives in

He also doesn't like my mother and rings her to give her abuse. He's always accusing me of going to visit my parents when I don't. It's a constant argument. I'm at the end of my tether.

Really meant with all the kindness possible.. I don't think this is arguing. I think your husband sounds abusive and controlling.
Suggesting you need to lie to visit your family or monitoring how much you can spend on food and nappies while he spends what he wants isn't healthy behaviour from him.
What is the consequence if you don't do what he says?

What on earth!!! Be doesn't want you to feed your children and be randomly ribs your mother to abuse her.
You need help OP, this behaviour is so bizarre!
Contact Refuge for support and plan your exit from this marriage. Oh and call your mum, she'll be desperate to help get you away from him.

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OP he sounds financially abusive and he shouldn't be phoning your mother to bully her. You can contact the National Domestic Abuse Helpline or your local domestic abuse team and have a chat about what's going on.

Stop wasting your life with this nasty little man and think of the environment you're raising your children in!

What does your mother say to him?

He's absolutely pathetic, please seek legal help in how to go about splitting up with him as well as getting emotional support from somewhere such as Women's Aid.