So I’m 2 weeks postpartum after having a complex c section. I’ve got a 2 and a half year old toddler too.
My husband has been trying to look after me, I’m doing everything from
Feeds to changing each nappy for baby, and I’m changing my toddler morning and night. Every time I ask my husband to do something that needs to be done I.e put clothes on wash, wash baby’s bottles, fill
The thermos. He’s 7/10 times agitated and
responds to me in a mood and it’s really starting to get me. Yesterday I had a very bad day my little one had a procedure done and I was extremely nervous and I had no affection from my husband nothing in fact we argued and again today we’ve argued.
Today he came back from taking our toddler out and she fell
Asleep in the car, he put her down and as he walked in the room I said to him I want to give our baby bath before he goes to sleep, and he just went bloody he’ll I need 2 mins your always so rush, and I just said why can’t you just say things nicely and just say give me 2 mins in a nice manner. And he said that I expected him to do it then and the and I should be saying when you r free can you help me give baby a bath. Like why the fudk should I be tiptoeing I always do and I’m so sick of this man honestly
Feel like banging my head on a wall