Hello, Im here asking for an advice of what to think of this person as I am left really confused.
I was in a relationship with someone for 4 years. We have 1 child together who is nearly 7. He left with no explanation when our child was 2. He never answered calls or texts.
I found out he had another baby on the way and I accepted the relationship was over. I was really hurt he didn’t want to see our child anymore but I stopped texting and calling.
It’s been 4 years since then and last week I had a text message saying the following:
’I saw you the other day I hope you are ok, how is (inserts child's name)’
I didn’t recognise the number and replied with:
’ hello, I haven’t got your number who is this’
I never got a reply.
Same day I went on my whatsapp on my lunch break and saw missed calls from my ex’s number so I realised the messages from the other number are from him. I messaged him on iMessage but my messages were not delivered I thought I was blocked so I messaged on whastapp instead.
my messages were delivered after 5 hours or so, he read and never replied. My messages on whatsapp were: ‘ hello I saw you called me and I’ve only just seen it’
it’s been a week since this interaction but I feel so stupid for replying. what was going through this person mind to contact me and to ignore me again. I’ve been feeling so low this past week and I was doing so well before that. I thought he wanted to see his child I guess I’m being delusional. Was there something wrong with my reply?