Does he just want sex

[Luckylola732]

So I have recently been getting to know this guy and there have been a couple of red flags on things he has said

1. how easy are you to get withwhen drunk would you leave your friends on a night out to go home with a guy
2. Asked me what i’m like when drunk eg flirty etc
3. Always asks if i’m seeing anyone or if i’ve been going on dates at all. But apart from saying he has seen me on hinge doesn’t mention anything else apart from asking if i’m single
4. When we had another one on one chat after work he kept bringing up how many women he had slept with and what girls he had gotten with at uni. This lead to us naturally having a convo about hooking up at uni etc but I did notice he kept returning the convo to sex when I tried to change topic. He even asked when the last time i had sex was

For context we work together at a pub, we don’t have many shifts together but we have been vert flirty very early on.

My gut is telling me that he just wants a shag from me, but sometimes I also get the impression that he does like me seriously
But he is very hot and cold.

He sounds like a predatory creep. Avoid.

For goodness sake. You genuinely need us to tell you that this one isn’t a goer?

I don't think he's creepy I nthe get you drunk and have sex with you, but I do think you'll undergo the Spanish inquisition every time you go out without him or a bloke at the bar buys you a drink / says hello.

Either way, agree with the consensus to just not. Enjoy the banter if you like it but nothing more.

He is trying to find out whether you are an easy lay and will jump on anything that moves.

"When did you last have sex?"

He actually, seriously asked you THAT? And still expected you to take him seriously?

Liking someone and just wanting a shag aren’t mutually exclusive, you like the people you want to shag, don’t you?

He just doesn’t sound like a well-rounded, interesting guy, conversations seem quite one dimensional, so why are you crushing on him?

This is the way I might speak to a platonic mate I’ve known for years if we were on the subject, but not to someone I’d have any kind of romantic intentions towards, wanting to know all this from a potential partner is just weird to me.

Also sounds like he’s really in need of some if this topic is so on his mind!