Hi ladies
Some of my kids are on high rate dla care due to special needs. Also receive universal credit.
My husband had a row with me tonight stating I've no awareness of money.
Yet I pay rent from uc, oil, food groceries, everything for the kids.
I'm at home full time school runs, after school activities and make the dinners.
He said he works so hard bla bla and he has great awareness of money as he works for it and if I wasn't receiving all the help I'm getting I would be totally different with money.
I'm in no way reckless with money. Pay all bills on time everything and never ask him for money.
To me this is resentment. I said this and he laughed at me.
I'm thinking how dare he. "it's money the kids are entitled to?! It's their money. And I would love nothing more the an them not have special needs and not receive dla.
It started with my 12 year old having electric heater on too warm his feet. My husband asked me to turn it of. I said he's only warming his feet ten minutes he was outside all day, my husband replied by laughing aw he should try being outside like me every single day.. I feel he is creating a competion with his son..
He then stated aw if it was any of our other kids ud turn it off but because it's him u wouldn't as u think more of him. I started to cry and said how dare you I feel the same of them all how dare you and he said aw touched a nerve have I..
Any advice please..