However 6 months down the line and we are still only seeing other once sometimes twice a week. Usually Saturday night at 9 and most of Sunday and occasionally a few hours in the week
I'm assuming he's fitting your relationship around his child. What do you want? Do you want to join him when he's with his child?
We have spoken of the future and we want to live together, eventually marriage etc.
This contradicts agreeing to take things slowly. You're six months in and have discussed marriage.
He introduced me to his 12 year old child and he’s met my 3 children on one occasion.
Again, this isn't taking things slow.
He has a very demanding job and shared custody of his child.He's obviously very busy, which is why you see each other when you do.
At this stage I would have hoped we would be seeing more of each other but maybe this is the norm.
How do you envisage this? Do you want to spend time with him when he's with his child? What time does he finish work?
He says he would like us to live together by next year.
It's November so he wants to move in together in the next few weeks?
I would like to hear people’s thoughts on this should I be expecting a bit more ?
I think you need to lower your expectations. He's busy at work, has shared custody of his child and probably has friends and hobbies.
Six months in after seeing each other a couple of times a week, you're talking about marriage and making plans to move in together.
I think you need to slow down.