I've been friends with this man for around two years. The past few weeks we have got quite close and he's opened up to me about some troubles he's been having, lots of things really. I don't think he has anyone else he can talk to.
I felt some chemistry between us and after some wine I told him I felt that. He said he likes me a lot and wants to go out for food, but he's a bit of a mess financially.
Anyway we haven't been out for food yet but have been eating together at my place and a couple of nights ago we ended up having sex. I kind of knew it would happen and I think he did too. It was good 😊
So he left the next afternoon which was Sunday. All was fine, we had breakfast together and chatted for ages before he left.
But I haven't heard anything from him since. Granted, it hasn't been that long but I'm a little disappointed that he hasn't checked in. Am I just overthinking things? Should I send him a message? I think he does like me but he's not in a great position for a relationship I guess. I know he's not seeing anyone else, hes not a player or anything. I like him and our connection. I always get a little insecure after sex. We had been texting most days before though.