We’ve moved near an airport which DH’s family frequently fly from and we’ve only been here a few weeks yet they’ve come 6 times to use our home as a hotel.
They expect DH to drop them to the airport and pick them up which he does (sometimes at unreasonable times like 2am drop offs which then results in him being tired the whole of the next day).
They stay on work nights and obviously I don’t feel comfortable in my own home when they’re here and they will take their good time to leave. They want to “relax and recharge and have some food and drink” before making their way home.
DH will also tell me randomly “oh by the way I’m picking up so and so and they’re going to stay on X night”. I’ve told him before that this house is becoming an airport hotel and he laughs it off but it’s really starting to get on my nerves. I don’t want arguments and bitterness but it’s getting a bit ridiculous now. Before they used to go to and from the airport on their own and somehow now they think it’s ok to treat this house like a f’ing airport hotel, restaurant and taxi. My own relatives wouldn’t do that or expect this so I’m struggling to understand why they think this is ok.
I worry if I tell DH he will start saying that it sounds like I don’t want/like them or that I’m just being a bitch.
would you be ok with this or am I just being unreasonable?