How do you divorce your in laws without actually divorcing your husband?! This would be my ideal right now. I am 45 and have been with my husband since university and married over 15 years with two children. His parents are such a toxic, selfish pair but they guilt trip him well. I wish I’d gone no contact years ago. Shall I just cease all contact or say that’s what I’m doing? I feel cheated as my family, though not perfect as no one is, has provided a lot of love and affection and generosity to us all. His just suck the will to live out of us! And give us hassle through their poor life choices. Our children are now getting old enough to realise how small minded, selfish and probably racist they are. That’s very sad. Time to say bye-bye? I don’t want to see them anymore or for my children to be exposed to their nonsense.