Argument help

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NC - Argh someone help me work this out!

BF of 3 years, recently moved in. Is abroad working right now. Everything recently up until this week has been amazing!

Message out of the blue asking me some details of an appointment I had mentioned. Basically he thinks I have misled him saying I was seeing a female friend practitioner and I've actually seen a male practitioner (who I have been going to for years!)

I 100% didn't lie / mislead him and he can't see past it!

I feel enraged and completely at loggerheads that he has got this in to his head and trying to hold me accountable to it!

I want an apology for him implying I'm lying! And he thinks I've intentionally misled him!

He sounds vile get rid!!!!
This will only get worse

My husband was like this when we first got together (early-mid 20s). He would tell me I had to ask for a female nurse etc.

He grew out of it and a few years ago was sitting next to my male IVF consultant chatting away while he was performing my embryo transfer. He would never say anything like that now.

It may not be the end. But be careful.

This relationship is not going to work long term. You’ve only just moved in together and it’s started already. Brace yourself because it’s only going to get worse.

It's so hard because the vast majority of the time things are so good and I don't see any of this! It's like something gets in his head and there is no reasoning and I struggle with that!

I'm so so glad it worked out for you xx