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Divorce, OLD, loneliness

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MountainRanger · 01/11/2024 18:22

Early 40s, 2 kids. Divorced a few years ago. Recently started OLD. Had a couple of terrible dates, a couple of ok ones. Thought I was dealing with it well. Then met someone who I quite liked. Had 5 dates, sex on the last one. Now I’ve got the “not sure where my head’s at” messgage, which is totally fair enough and I think I wasn’t totally sure anyway.

But now I just feel quite down. Just looking for advice to pick myself up. I don’t want to be alone forever.

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TipsyJoker · 01/11/2024 20:17

Work on yourself and your own self esteem so that you’re happy to be alone and if someone comes along it’s a bonus, not what all your hopes of happiness are pinned on. Spend some time enjoying your freedom. Read this book

https://www.docdroid.net/2fZmz40/why-does-he-do-that-pdf#page=3

Spend time making new friends or strengthening you current friendships. Enjoy yourself. Enjoy being in your own skin.

why-does-he-do-that.pdf

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