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SparklePopRampage · 29/10/2024 19:43

Feeling totally gaslit. Beyond talking to anyone anymore. I am obviously the issue always and forever more amen. Welcome to no point anymore station.

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Carsarelife · 29/10/2024 19:44

What's happened recently?

SparklePopRampage · 29/10/2024 19:47

Said I needed space as my job is very client facing. 3 mins later person is walking into my space unnecessarily. I said I’ve tried to tell you I need some alone time. Massive response about how said person was ‘only’ doing this that and the other, cue defensive behaviour. Passively aggressively commenting about how I’m causing issues. Tried to explain calmly met with massive rampage and how I’m causing arguments and this that and the other and my last bit of anything just gave up.

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SparklePopRampage · 29/10/2024 19:49

It’s like two polar opposites all the time. All or nothing. For example with this ‘fine I’ll never do this that or the other or walk into the lounge again’ just such an unnecessary overreaction every time. Making it into a MASSIVE issue from a simple expression of just needing 5 mins headspace.

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SparklePopRampage · 29/10/2024 19:51

I’m have just stared at the wall through the whole torrent and then removed myself to a bedroom.

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Circumferences · 29/10/2024 19:55

Ok, so you work from home, asked for space, your boyfriend came into you space which was disrespectful, but he sees it as a shared space and not "your" space? Is that about right?

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