So my girlfriend has been single for a couple of years and dipped her toe into online dating. She met a guy she quite liked, and they went on a few dates, he seemed VERY into her, but then he ghosted her. He came back a month later, with what seemed like a legit reason, and they dated for 6 weeks or so, and after having an amazing date (I saw his last message saying what a fantastic night he had, it was the best start to his weekend, with lots of emoji kisses), she never heard from him again. This has really dented her confidence and we have talked about it for hours. She keeps wondering if it's something she said or did. It obviously wasn't!
My friend is an absolute stunner - and I'm not just saying this because she is my friend. She is very good looking and the most wonderful person. Lively, bubbly, kind, gorgeous etc. The overall package.
Meanwhile, this guy was several leagues below her - dead end job, massive stoner, etc. From all the drug use, he looks 15 years older. Rationally, she knows all of this - that she's had a lucky escape. I've told her it's him, not her etc. But it's stopped her from going out on any more dates. Aside from being her friend and listening, what else can I do. Suggest therapy? I wish people (like this man) would stop being so shitty!