In the process but at the very beginning of getting a divorce. Dh has a new property secured. Communication is not a strong point and we only just started talking about what led us to this point. He questioned something I quoted to him as he recognised being told the same. Turns out it was all based on mistruths from dd putting us against each other so we both believed things that weren’t true about each other. Yes our parenting styles are opposite which was always difficult and he is short tempered but he’s not a monster which is what was being made out to me. I feel like I need to do a big rewind here and stop the divorce. Obviously he might not want to do this now but I’m thinking if we lived apart but stayed together it might be salvageable. Or is that a terrible idea? Am I just prolonging the inevitable? It just seems such a shame because I truly feel he is my soul mate.