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I’m stuck

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Anom91 · 25/10/2024 23:49

i have posted previously about my partner re cocaine use. I’m ashamed to say I took him Back into the family (joint owned) home. I did weekly drug tests for a while and he has done really well in staying off it. However… he has became increasingly more agitated and verbally abusive. Telling me to F off, calling me names during conversations and just not being the stable family man we need. I don’t know why I’m posting I just need some advice. My mum isn’t very supportive she dosent do emotional chats so I fell very much alone in my thoughts. A big part of me wants to leave with the kids. I have a 12 y/o, 19 month old and 8 month old. Life has been so incredibly difficult lately but I love my kids more than anything and I know I should leave. He loves them too he, dotes on them but when he gets angry he is scary and so unpredictable. I’m a mess and I know what I need to do. I just can’t seem to take that step. Help x

OP posts:
XChrome · 26/10/2024 01:10

You can take the step. You got him to leave the family home before, so can you do it again? This time don't take him back ever. Get a good lawyer, file for divorce right away and stick to your guns. You and the kids deserve to be safe and happy and you never will be if you stay in this relationship. So if you won't do it for yourself, do it for the kids. You don't want them to grow up in this chaos and thinking abuse is acceptable.

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