Porn addiction

[Maisie22x]

Am I wrong for breaking up with my bf of 4 years. He’s addicted to porn promised me so many times he wouldn’t do it again(I mean about 20 times) I’ve told him how it makes me feel an he just doesn’t care. I caught him tonight in the bathroom watching it while he thought I was asleep! I pulled the door open so quick should have seen his face lol. But no seriously wtf do I do

You do what you need to do.

It's not a dealbreaker for everyone but it clearly is for you, so finish with him.

You have told him how it makes you feel but watching porn is more important to him than you. So yes I think you are right to break up with him.
He gets his sexual satisfaction from seeing other women being abused and violated. Most porn these days features violence against women. And if he is addicted to porn he will be watching more and more extreme stuff.
You will be much better off without being tied to a porn addled man who doesn't care about your feelings and sees women purely as sex objects.

If this is a boundary for you then of course you should end the relationship. He's not going to stop.

Thankyou. It’s the type of porn he’s watching that makes me feel physically sick and disgusted I just can’t take it anymore if it was just “normal” I wouldn’t be as bothered. it involves trans women which makes me question a lot of things as a straight woman I’m so drained and done 4 years I’ve put up with it.

Yes we use a strap on almost every time we have sex I came up with the idea after I found out he was trying to meet up with trans escorts when we split up for a few months I sort of thought it might make him fancy he more idk

No i don’t think he would. Well maybe in secret yes but I don’t want to be the woman to cover him if you get what I mean because what’s next cheating with a trans woman because I can’t satisfy his kinks?? Probably 🥲

If the porn he's watching makes you feel physically sick and disgusted then why are you acting it out for him?
You could end up with significant trauma from that if you haven't been traumatised already.
Do you enjoy your sex life with him?