So I've came to Mumsnet because it has been playing on my mind for a few month now.
Me and my partner have been together for 4 year and have a 3 year old daughter. He is still involved with his ex girlfriends dad he goes to his house every now and again for a 'drink'. 2 month ago my partner had went abit off the rails he was out for 2 days on the drink he turned his phone off all night he eventually turned it on he answered and he was being very nastly towards me he told me he was at his mates having a drink (his ex girlfriends dads) he turned his phone back off. He didn't turn his phone back on all day so I got intouch with his ex girlfriend and she went round to check if he was there for me. He was. Then I got in contact and he said we were over, and to not contact him again. I was so confused. His ex girlfriend was comforting me over message saying I'm worth more etc basically on my side I was abit insecure about her if there was anything going on she reassured me that there definitely wasn't.
Then my partner was still at his house drinking the next day. I said to his ex girlfriend I think it's best you don't go down there when he's there because it will make us argue. She said ' right that's fine'. Then next thing I know I see on her social media that she is there drinking with them. I instantly thought the worst so I contacted her giving her abit grief she rang me and was having a go at my partner whilst on the phone to me. Having my back.
I am still wary about all this I am so paranoid if anything happened that night between them two. It's like she only went to her dads for a drink because she knew my partner was there that night even though she said she’d keep out the way.
opnions/advice on this?