Would you end it?

[Debbie7171]

I’ve been seeing someone for 7 months. I wasn’t attracted initially but after getting to know him, I found him more attractive, or at least so I thought. he’s lovely and we get on well. However, I’m not sure if I am attracted to him. He’s a bit over weight and before I’ve always gone for ‘skinny’ guys. Nothing wrong with either body type, just my personal preference. Sometimes I think I am attracted to him but then other times I’m not sure if I’ve just convinced myself this. He’s not met my DS and I don’t want to take things any further due to being unsure. I sound horrible and because of his personality I’m torn surely looks aren’t everything? But then he does deserve someone who thinks he’s the most attractive guy in the world.

Ding! Next.

Of course you should end it! I can’t believe you’ve wasted seven months trying to decide whether you fancied him or not. Best for you both to move on. Relationships shouldn’t be this hard at this stage.

At the 7 month stage you should be all excited not doubting whether you fancy him.
Sounds like he isn't for you

At 7 months you should be head over heels and looking forward to next stage not dithering.

The fact you’re not wildly in love tells you all you need to know. End it and move on

Stop trying to settle for someone you don't fancy.