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C2634 · 22/10/2024 07:46

I have been helping a friend out how has been going through a bad separation and divorce. Her ex is a narcissist a bully controlled everything she does. They have a child together. But I am worried that he still is controlling her as she says that she will never have him back. But they go out doing things like a couple and I don't think they should. She told me she would stop as other people are noticing. But she hasn't. I think the only priority for the ex is the child not her. Please help what can I do to make her see that all the outings with ex isn't right.

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Lollyp2 · 22/10/2024 07:49

Well done on what you have done so far.
I think at the end of the day it's ultimately her decision to end this or draw a line.

They are going through a divorce but it's not clear why they do stuff together not unless it's just for the child?

Daleksatemyshed · 22/10/2024 08:56

If her ex is controlling he's probably trying to suck her back in by doing the outings, men like her ex can't believe a woman doesn't love them anymore. If she's used to being controlled maybe your friend finds it hard to make decisions, he's telling her one thing , you another, she needs to make up her own mind. You're a good friend Op but she needs to stand on her own feet now

C2634 · 22/10/2024 09:00

I would normally agree with that but they are doing things together without their child. I have been there from the beginning to the end of the divorce. This isn't helping him to let her go. I will just continue to support the best I can.

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