Here is a bit of context to my situation: I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost three years. I am almost 30, my boyfriend is 28. I have a little boy from a previous relationship. My boyfriend owns his own home however his mum lives with him, I still live at home with my mum and my little boy. My boyfriend and I talk about living together one day once we can afford to buy our own house together. At the moment, we see eachother on average 2 times a week, sometimes 3 times. I personally feel after our length of relationship and prospect of wanting to live together that we need to increase the amount of time we see eachother to get used to being around eachother more, however, my boyfriend often seems reluctant to spend more time together, as he enjoys his home comforts. I can understand this, however, I think it is important to trial spending more time together in order to know if we are going to be compatible living together. For example, my mum is away on holiday this week so I have the house to myself with my little boy, I asked my boyfriend if we would like to stay for the week as it’s the perfect opportunity to spend more time together without our parents around. My mum has been gone for 3 nights, so far he has only stayed one and gone home already. He seems unenthusiastic, and unwilling to spend more time together. It is really getting to me and I feel that this is detrimental to our relationship. Any advice?