This isn’t really child related this a women to women situation, I need some support processing this and dissecting it for what it is…..
I am a single mother my sons dad left for me his ex when I became pregnant never returned or has anything to do with my son.
When my son was four months old I was taken out on a date things were going really well, he then backed down and said he wasn’t ready so I decided to run background checks on this person as I didn’t believe it was as innocent as that. I found that he has previous with someone who works in the pub that he drinks in and that his mum also worked in and that there was signs this was going on. I asked if there was anyone else he said no I didn’t believe it and I chose to walk away and went no contact…. Some time later he reproached me with this person deleted from his life (I checked) things have been amazing for months we booked a holiday only last week and I got the keys to my house which he had spent last weekend decorating for me whilst I was I working.
Low and behold on Tuesday after not going in the pub since we had gotten back together he has returned back in there and he came over to see me after stayed the night and in the morning he either added her back or accepted her adds back whilst he was with me.
I flew of the handles once I had saw when he left me and he refused to acknowledge what I was saying as he was very shocked I knew about all of this and never told him I knew for sure…. He then ended it with me and didn’t respond to my last message asking to have a proper conversation about all of this, then on Friday he took all of our happy memories down of his social media but didn’t remove me from anything so he clearly wanted me to see that. I have in returned blocked this person everywhere as I believe this was the right thing to do. I’m completely confused and do not understand what the hell has gone on here and processing it is hard xx