Hi, my and my partner have been together for 3 years. I live about 20 miles away from him. He owns his own house and wants me to move in with him. This is his childhood house that he was given to him.
I would have to move my 10 year old daughter to another school which she would hate and she is due to start secondary school in September. We have already applied for the school near our house.
I am in a position to buy a house together but I cannot afford it on my own. I don't want to start the rest of our lives together in his childhood home. I also don't want to move to his home town as my girls are very settled where they are.
He just keeps telling me we'll have no mortgage etc but I don't think he's even stopped to consider how my daughter would cope moving away from her friends and the area she knows just before she goes to high school.
Has anyone else been in any similar situations?
Or do you have any advice?