My marriage, i feel is volitile, husband is arging at the moment about our sex life , which i admit isnt good, i have said that he needs to look at how he treats me, he does nothing around the house, spends stupid amounts of money, offers no support to me at all, and spends any free time playing games, he also constantly accuses me of seeing other people , insists i cheated on him because i spoke to a couple of men i know when i was out with a friend , isaid it isnt appealing to women when they are constantly being accused and called a slag to then have sex , which he has taken has i dont find him appealing sexually, im banging my head against a brick wall trying to defend my self and getting him to see his actuons affect me , when do i say enough is enough or do i keep fighting and just let him get his way and stay quiet