Hi, I'm mid forties and so is partner. Been together 6 yrs. I've had abusive relationships previously. I escaped a domestic violent relationship and took our darling child with me.
I met partner and he seemed so kind. We had many mutual friends and they all said what a lovely guy he is. Everything's been OK. He had loads of get up and go. Not anymore. Comes in from work, fussed the cat and ignores me. Always scrolling through his phone, no effort.
He gets angry/snappy at me quite a bit recently.
We had a wardrobe that needed to go upstairs recently. It was a heavy one with draws ect. I said to him that I will try. Obviously I couldn't manage it. He sniggered at me in my distressed state ( I have Bpd Ptsd depression and anxiety) I had a panic attack. I was screaming at him when he tried to drag it up. He let go, it smashed and now at the tip.
I dont work due to my struggles and he works and on UC.
I dont see any of his money. Sometimes a bit of shopping or Greg's.
I owe gas/electric 8000. He knows I can't manage. He never offers any help.
I lost my dad 3 months ago and I've never missed him more. We used to chat for hours.
Partner just wants to watch Minder repeats or Xbox. Sorry for the rant.Thanks for reading