When is enough enough?

[user2312]

When do you know enoughs enough and it's time to walk away? I feel so many times like now is the time but then something good happens and I see hope. He's emotionally unavailable, quite selfish and doesn't make any effort anymore. I know I need too but honestly I'm just too weak.

When you’re asking this question

He is teaching you how he feels you should be treated, and you are allowing him doing that by staying.
Behaviour is a language in my opinion.

I'm just too weak In what way?

Are you able to break those feelings of weakness down into smaller chunks? A journey of a thousand miles starts with one step.

Such wise words 💓

This is such a lovely response thank you.

Just quite a weak person. I'm such a people pleaser and I do try and see the best in everybody. The thought of meeting someone new again I don't like so I do suppose I'm just settling and I'm aware of this.

Please don't label yourself as a weak person. You aren't. You have probably been conditioned all your life to be compliant, think of others and put them first all the time. Those aren't weaknesses, they are ingrained habits, but there comes a point where you are suffering because of it.

Sounds like this time is enough. Ducks in a row 👀 🦆

Are there children involved ?

Have an idea of where you want to be next Christmas and work your way backwards to have a plan.