Our mum has been seriously ill, and is coming back from hospital to her home again. She is 96 years old. My eldest 2 middle aged sister siblings have been arguing non-stop. TBH they are both nasty, toxic people, and most of the time I let them get on with it.
However, one of them left a message on the other sisters phone, swearing and calling her names, which the recipient, my sister, has now shared with everyone on her list of contacts, she even has knocked on my mums neighbors doors and let them listen to the voicemail. In order to 'show them what she is like'
It's so embarrassing and cringeworthy, I'm so ashamed of them. The whole family, extended family, neighbours and friends are being dragged into the familys craziness. My poor mum knows nothing of this. Both sisters scream and rant at the drop of a hat. One of them has stolen from my mum, (and from me, I don't let her into my house anymore) and has stolen from our older relatives houses. Has anyone any words of advice? Or has similar experiences?